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Being An Outlier

We, humans, are social beings surrounded by family, friends, and community. At every given time we include ourselves as part of one social circle or the other. In fact, we naturally desire that inclusivity. Devoid of them, we feel a huge void of loneliness. Living in such close knitted social circles, what does it take for one of us to be an outlier?  How do our societal systems allow for embracing outliers? More specifically, how do families embrace one of their own who is an outlier? Kanak (name changed) was an outlier in her community. She is in her 12th standard. Because she proved herself in her studies, unlike her friends' fathers, her father encouraged her to take up tuitions a little away from her village. Obviously, he would drop her and there were strict conditions on timings and public behaviour. Most of her friends know that their education might be discontinued soon, just like their elder sisters. So their reveries were often restricted to being the good gir